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Take Me Back Tuesday : Praying for Oklahoma

Today’s post is unplanned and not truly a Take Me Back. I had a post planned but today it just doesn’t seem fitting in light of  the horrific disaster that happened in Moore, OK yesterday. You see, I am an Okie. Born and raised. I love that state and the people in it. It is home.

Yesterday, a mile wide tornado ripped through a city that I drive through every time I visit my friends and family in Oklahoma. It is just north of where I went to college and just south of where my grandparents live. It is not a foreign city you see on the news but a place very close to my heart. As I watched the news this morning and looked at the rising death count as well as the jaw-dropping damage, tears fell from my eyes in sorrow. In times like these of heart-wrenching devastation, my heart inevitable turns to the promise that preserves life. The hope of something greater. An eternal glory untainted by the devastation of this world. The hope that is in the promise of a Savior. Some may find it confusing that I would be able to trust in God in a time like this but truly, it is my trust in God that gives understanding in such tragedy as this. Without the hope of that promise, we are left with nothing BUT devastation. With His promise, we have the anticipation of an eternal home that will be worth ALL the pain and sorrow.

As Psalm 27:13-14  says, “I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord In the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; Be strong and let your heart take courage; Yes, wait for the Lord.”

Let us not despair in our desperation and loss but look to the Lord as we wait in expectation of His promise for we WILL see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.

Let us all pray diligently for the lives affected in Moore, OK today and the days to come as they pick up the pieces and mourn the lives of those lost.

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Behind the Lens: The Wedding Hangover

Ok, Internet, it’s Monday. Usually Mondays don’t hold the same disdain for me as they do the rest of the world because my weekdays are never the same. Monday isn’t always the ‘day you have to return to reality’ for me. However, today I woke up feeling like my body might have been run over by a semi in the middle of the night. In fact, I was pretty sure of it actually. Fatigue was paying its weekly visit and a case of the Mondays was knocking at my door.

I had the joy of shooting some friends’ wedding last night and it was just that…a joy. I had a blast and the day was beautiful! Once again, I was reminded why I love what I do and how blessed I am to be doing it. I went to bed exhausted but happy. Today I woke up though with what I call the ‘wedding hangover.’ (don’t worry…it’s just a phrase). Mmmhmmm…it’s an inevitable side effect of every wedding I shoot. You see, when I get in to ‘work mode,’ I can’t get out of it. Once wedding days start, I am in THE ZONE, people! My heart, mind and body are all poured in to that day and capturing it the best way possible. Ask my second shooters and they will tell you, I go hard and I don’t stop until the end. Hence…the wedding hangover. As soon as the music stops and the send-off is complete, I start to come down from my ‘photographer’s high’ and the crash sets it. Without fail, I wake up the next morning with my body screaming in rebellion, ‘No more wedding hangovers!’

Well good thing it’s mind over matter because there are many more ‘wedding hangovers’ to be had and they are all worth it! I just may spend the rest of the day a little more sluggish than usual…

Happy Monday!

(Since every post is better with pictures, here are a few of sneak peek detail shots from last night!)

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Lauren + Devin | A Montgomery, AL Rehearsal Dinner | Little Red’s Schoolhouse

I was there when they met. I had just moved to Dallas and went to visit Lauren at her seminary, Dallas Theological. That morning had been crazy because she ran out of gas on the highway…at 730am…in DALLAS! That equals not good, Internet. I managed to get a can of gas and bring it to her…ON THE SIDE OF THE HIGHWAY. A crazy first introduction to the joys of Dallas traffic but it was a memory. The memories of the day didn’t stop there though. No, we were able to make it to class a little late and we ran in to some of her friends. She had never met Devin, but some of her friends made sure to introduce them…for ulterior motives. Little did we know that Devin’s friends had picked Lauren out as the ‘perfect girl’ for him and they had schemed the whole thing for the two of them to meet. As soon as the introductions were done, it was passed around that there was a group going to Billy Bob’s (a famous country dance hall) in Fort Worth that night and that we should come. We headed to her house, debated going or not, neither of us feeling that up to it, but finally decided we were both new to the area and needed to make friends. So, off we went. I’m not sure Lauren has made very many life-altering decisions like that one…cause well, the rest was history. All night Devin looked for opportunities to talk to her and gain her attention and gain her attention he did. He asked her out on the ride home, which is a funny story in and of itself but I’ll spare her the public embarrassment…you’re welcome, Lauren.

I ‘just happened’ to be there when he proposed and what a glorious day that was! Devin asked her to marry him in the most beautiful gazebo last summer and she said yes without hesitation. I may have looked like a total creeper hiding behind the bushes but well…I’m used to looking ridiculous to capture special moments!

And I was also there when they committed their lives to one another before their friends, family and most importantly, before their ultimate love, Jesus Christ. Lauren and Devin allowed me the great honor of photographing their rehearsal dinner before their spring wedding in Montgomery, Alabama. While I love to shoot weddings, I cannot express how much I love shooting rehearsal dinners. It is the time during a wedding celebration where the bride and groom’s closest friends and family get to share stories, enjoy laughter and brag on the people standing before them. Lauren and Devin’s friends and family didn’t disappoint as countless numbers of them stood up and celebrated the lives of two wonderful people. I found myself tearing up behind the camera as toasts were given in honor of their character, their love for people, their selflessness and their unwavering faith. It was a night of sweet tears, joyous laughter and happy celebration!

Lauren and Devin, separately, you are two VERY special people. I can only imagine how much more wonderful the world will be because of your union. I’m so very glad that I’ve been able to witness such a beautiful relationship…from the very beginning. Thanks for letting me be part of such a special weekend!

Happy Friday!

Praying… before anything else. 

Lauren spent several summers at Kanakuk Kamps in Missouri and several people she had worked alongside traveled the long distances to celebrate with her. Including my own preggo sister!

Mylee is a sweet friend of Lauren’s and was her flower girl. And yes…I genuinely mean friend. I love this shot of the two of them. 

This sweet bridesmaid had her child just a few weeks before the wedding and still made the trip. What a trooper!

Even though it wasn’t the real deal, these are two of my favorite shots from the night!

They had their dinner at this wonderful little restaurant. It was tucked away in the country and used to be a little one room schoolhouse. 

I LOVED the details they had done. So cute and so fitting with the Alabama/Southern theme. 

Are these not the cutest little signs?!?!

Praying before dinner with their family patriarchs next to them. 

Toasts!

These are Devin’s two scheming friends that made it all happen. I believe they are retelling the story here…hence the laughter below. 

Lauren’s best friends from college getting to share about how special she is in their lives. Yeah, this is probably when the tears behind my camera began to flow.

Getting to speak to his bride-to-be and tell her how excited he is to marry her. Favorite moment. 

I’ll close with this one from the wedding…Lauren, you are truly a beautiful woman, inside and out. You radiate the love of Christ and because of that, you love others well. Devin is a blessed man! Even though I see you more outside of our city than in it, I, like so many others, am blessed by every moment in your sweet presence. Oh…and here’s to rockin’ red lipstick!

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Take Me Back Tuesday | A Trip to the Windy City | Chicago, IL

One of the greatest things about my job is the fact that I get to travel! I LOVE to travel so this makes me a VERY happy camper. Photography and particularly wedding photography has taken me all over the country and fingers crossed, I’m hoping that will turn international (if anyone wants a photographer for their elopement, destination wedding, engagement or ‘just for fun’ shoot abroad…let me know!!!). In the last year of my business, it has been so fun to see all the places ‘work’ has taken me. In the last 5 months I’ve been to wonderful places like Washington DC, St. Petersburg, FL and now my travels have taken me to the Windy City!

This past weekend I had a wedding just outside of Chicago (can’t wait to post pictures of that beautiful day) and so my second shooter and friend, Julie, and I decided we should make a fun girls trip out of it! Our friend, Kay, flew in on Saturday to join and we spent a couple days just exploring Chi-town. We were stand-out tourists with our cameras and ‘stop every few minutes to look’ pace, but we didn’t care. The Windy City was INDEED windy but it treated us well. In the beginning I attempted to brush my hair back in to a controlled state but I eventually just embraced the ‘wind blown look.’ Work it…that’s what I’d tell my clients. The city was at the peak of its spring blooms and so I spent the majority of the time ‘ooing’ and ‘awing’, desperately wishing I had a couple to photograph underneath the blossoms. Luckily my friends were willing to stand in for a few. They appease me.

So, in the name of travel, spring blossoms and the wind-blown look,

I Say, Take Me Back!

The Bean. We had to.

I’m officially a dork in front of the camera but I’ve decided to embrace it!

This is significant for all you Kanakukers out there! I’ve spent a good part of my life on Lake Shore Drive!

Oklahoma in Chicago! I was excited!

The Chicago Tribune was probably one of my favorite parts of the trip. They had pieces of buildings from all over the world and this quote is just awesome. 

This advertisement was ALL over the city! A little bit of our city in the Midwest! Crazy!

This guy was DEFINITELY jamming on this old boom box. Too awesome for words. 

We had to. 

The Trump tower…that we thought was the Sears tower. Oops. 

I LOVE the Joffrey ballet! Brought back fun childhood memories.

We found the real Sears Tower…and a unicyclist.

Well hello, Lake Michigan. You look like the ocean. Just sayin. 

We were high up…to say the least.

The Bradford Pear trees I spent the whole time drooling over. Are these not breathtaking?!?!

Portrait time!

It was cold…probably the last time I’ll wear my coat for a while. 

Get it girls. I have taught them well…

This fountain was A-mazing. 

Again, such a dork. 

Julie is a champ. She is second shooting a good majority of my weddings with me this year and is a trooper. Thanks for being such a help and a good friend!

Wrigley field. 

Bekah - May 15, 2013 - 2:37 pm

You might be dorky, but you’re stunning as well. Gorgeous, my friend, gorgeous. The pics of you don’t do you justice.

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Eleni Harper | Celebrating One Year of Precious Life | Oklahoma City, OK

Lately I’ve been thinking that life feels like it’s speeding by me at 1,000 mph. Some days it seems like I blink and the world has changed around me so quick I can’t hardly remember how I got there. It seems like just yesterday my twin sister and I were meeting our dearest friend and kindred spirit, Emily, at the Baptist Student Union at the University of Oklahoma. Til this day, none of us can really remember when our friendship blossomed…it just did. Pretty much immediately. Things like that aren’t uncommon with kindred spirits…or at least I feel like Anne Shirley of Anne of Green Gables would agree. We were just friends from the beginning. Close ones. We have been roommates, confidants, supporters and laughed enough to make me smile just thinking about it. She is and always will be one of my dearest friends.

With the world moving at lightning speed, this dear friend has gotten married (which I take credit for…I played a significant role in setting her up with her husband which is a funny story if you ever want me to tell you), had a beautiful little girl and just recently celebrated that sweet little child’s 1 year birthday!! Time is racing by! When Emily called to ask me to take pictures of her sweet little Eleni for her first birthday, I was thrilled. How fun to be able to use what I love to document people who I love! It was a strangely cold day in April but we managed to make it work. Eleni Harper has my heart and I LOVED getting to take pictures of this cutie.

Enjoy some of my favs from their family session!

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